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You are here: Home / Inside Israel / All of Us are Not Some of Us

All of Us are Not Some of Us

November 2, 2017 By eJP

By Dov Ben-Shimon

After all the excuses, we stood at the Wall. The two of us. And we prayed.

My colleague Naomi Adler, the CEO of the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia, and I were at the Board of Governors of the Jewish Agency for Israel. Like our colleagues in Philadelphia, our Jewish Federation of Greater MetroWest is a major funder and supporter of the critical work that the Jewish Agency implements on our behalf. The stuff that really makes you proud when you read about our Jewish response – helping Jews from crisis-stricken areas make Aliyah, bringing younger Jews to Israel on the amazing year-long MASA program, supporting our (and other) lone soldiers in the IDF, and partnering with Israelis on meaningful programs that enrich lives and create deep connections. Stuff that swells your heart with pride that a Jewish community cares for those in need, builds Jewish life, and saves the world, one person at a time.

And these past years, the Jewish Agency has been a key supporter in our Jewish Federation’s struggle for religious pluralism in Israel.

Religious pluralism isn’t a fancy buzzword. It has real-world consequences and implications. It means that American Jewish values of diversity, of mutual respect, and of tolerance should be upheld. It means that you should say what you mean and mean what you say. And it also means that you need to be aware of the power of your words. It means that while we remember the assassination of Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin, z”l, we have to stand up statements such as those of the Sephardic Chief Rabbi, who stated that Reform Jews are worse than Holocaust deniers. It means that while we thank Prime Minister Netanyahu for emphasizing that all Jews have a place at the Kotel, we have to oppose the words of the Israeli Health Minister who says that “Reform Judaism has no access to or recognition at the Western Wall.”

The promises that were made after four years of negotiations over equal access to the Kotel were broken. Negotiations had been held in good faith with the religious streams and the Jewish Federations with the Government of Israel. But an agreement that was fair, and based on compromises by all sides, was thrown away at the end of June by coalition politics and a willingness, after all these years of saying that “we are One,” to admit that sometimes we are a fractured Many.

You can try to justify this, to explain that this is how politics in Israel work, that we shouldn’t be so naïve, and that American Jews should all make Aliyah if they want to change the system. That would be a (more) valid argument, perhaps, if we were discussing the draft, or taxes, or other major social issues. Some things should be decided by those who live there and pay the burdens of taxes and army service and daily life.

But the Kotel is different.

The Kotel issue is specifically, consistently, and rightly designated by all of our Israeli political leaders as an issue for the Entire Jewish People. Not just citizens of the State of Israel. All of us. No exceptions. All the Jewish People. And all of us are not some of us. Not all of us daven with a mechitza, a partition, even if some of us need it. Not all of us daven with a charedi rabbi, even if some of us cannot do without it. And some of us daven with our sons and daughters together. With female rabbis and cantors and prayer-leaders and ba’alot kriah. Unity isn’t uniformity.

You can tell me that most Israelis don’t care about the Kotel. It may be true (but it probably isn’t – most opinion polls show that most Israelis oppose the politicized Haredi monopoly over the site) but even if it is, would you use that argument consistently about your own core beliefs? I doubt it. The people that I’ve heard using that argument most these past few months have used it as a weapon of intolerance rather than a statement of fact. They’re saying: Drop it. Your views and feelings and values aren’t really important anyway.

We achieved an agreement – on recognition, on visibility, on space, on governance. And in a cynical act of betrayal, it was thrown away.

There’s more for us to do here. Our Jewish Federation funds hundreds of thousands of dollars’ worth of pluralism programs and platforms and initiatives every year. Our Federation’s Religious Pluralism Committee not only allocates money to these worthy programs but also works tirelessly to educate our community on the importance of advancing religious pluralism and diversity in Israel. Last month, our Federation became the first to join a group of rabbis, leaders, and cultural figures to sign a statement calling for major changes to ensure Israel’s identity as a Jewish and democratic country.

The other day I went to visit our flagship program this year, Reshut HaRabim, which brings together more than 30 Orthodox, Reform, Conservative, and unaffiliated organizations in Jerusalem for planning, programming and advocacy. These kinds of networks reflect a multitude of perspectives and religious expressions, and they’re changing Israeli society as we speak.

But that’s not the Kotel. And we may yet need to dial up the pressure and really say what we mean, and mean what we say. We may now need to look at advocacy programs, and lobbying, and pressure – and telling the truth to political leaders who claim to love us but won’t take our values and identity seriously. This is the time for more engagement, not disengagement.

So Naomi and I left a meeting with a Government Minister at the upper platform of the Egalitarian Section of the Kotel. The Egalitarian Section, which you can’t enter from the main entrance to the Kotel, and you can’t see from the main entrance to the Kotel, and which the “Rabbinic Authority” staff at the Kotel, paid civil servants, will deny even exists. The Egalitarian Section, with its ropes instead of guiderails, and its slippery dangerous steps instead of accessible ramps.

We left that meeting, and the same excuses we’ve heard before. And we walked over and touched the actual wall itself.

And together, standing next to each other, at the wall, we prayed for Justice, and Peace, and Love and Respect.

We prayed for Dialogue and Understanding and Tolerance.

And we prayed for the unity of the Jewish People.

Dov Ben-Shimon is Executive VP/CEO of Jewish Federation of Greater MetroWest NJ.

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  1. Richard Blankstein says

    November 2, 2017 at 3:50 pm

    How can you justify thanking the Prime Minister for his words when they are proven by the actions of his government to be hollow? It would be better to cancel your meeting with him and let him know that we too can change our minds.

  2. Rachel Moskowitz says

    November 3, 2017 at 1:54 am

    This article makes me sad. It’s beautufully written. And in truth, I agree: it was wrong for the Israeli government to reneg, and the Kotel should have access for all. The question is not so much about what then it is about why? Why wouid the government reneg? Why do the charedi have so much influence?

    I think it stems from one important truth: the charedim are growing, and non Orthodox Judaism is shrinking.

    We don’t like to talk about that latter point. We switch to feelings and rights and emotion. But it comes down to numbers which saddens me but explains the predicament.

  3. Clint Wilson says

    November 3, 2017 at 6:46 pm

    I see the irony in my fellow Jews being upset that the Israeli government is breaking promises, negotiates in bad faith, and denies religious pluralism. Thankfully reform and conservative Jews don’t have large land holdings that the government wants to take.

  4. esthermiriam says

    November 4, 2017 at 3:44 am

    Just maybe, before too long, US Jews who claim leadership will notice the connection between issues that may affect diaspora directly and the many others that are stealing the future of Israel. And speaking of the importance of words, maybe it is time to stop talking about “non-Orthodox” and describe what we many *are*: egalitarian or liberal or contemporary or….

  5. Jordan says

    November 4, 2017 at 11:23 pm

    Shalom Esthermiriam,

    Orthodox Judaism has an accepted (by its followers) definition for the adjective “Jewish.” Non Orthodox works simply because whether one calls oneself “egalitarian or liberal or contemporary or….,” there is no across the board definition for the adjective “Jewish.”

    Please help me out Esthermiriam. Anyone can be “egalitarian or liberal or contemporary or….” So…what specifically makes these categories Jewish?

    Shavu’a Tov to all of us,
    Biv’racha,
    Jordan

  6. Clint Wilson says

    November 7, 2017 at 6:19 pm

    Shalom Jordan,

    So… what specifically makes these categories Jewish? – It’s all relative. The better and more soulful question is: What specifically can we do to ensure that more of our people find a home in Judaism?

    Israel’s Law of Return stipulates that a Jew is someone with a Jewish mother OR someone who has converted to Judaism – this would include egalitarian, or liberal, or contemporary, or conservative, or orthodox, or reform, or modern orthodox, or however a Jew finds their path. For our tribes continued success we need to be accepting of our fellow people and not try and play the “everybody to the right of my position is crazy and everybody to the left of my position is not really Jewish.”

    We will be stronger, safer, and better together.

  7. Jordan says

    November 8, 2017 at 12:32 am

    Shalom Clint,

    Thanks for engaging. I asked then you repeated and answered: “So… what specifically makes these categories Jewish? – It’s all relative.”

    Please help me understand “It’s all relative.” Relative to what? You continued:
    “What specifically can we do to ensure that more of our people find a home in Judaism?”

    We must create a meaningful, contemporary, relevant, practical and application oriented North American non Orthodox (NANO) Judaism. It would clearly, coherently, and compellingly answer the following three questions: 1. Why be intentionally Jewish? 2. Why do Jewish? 3. Why Judaism? Then it would provide a pathway toward answering the question “how now shall we live?”
    The status quo of NANO Judaism has failed at everything just described. Most NANO Jews find no value in the the current NANO reality beyond perhaps as a purveyor of life cycle events, and perhaps an infrequent worship service, e.g., the High Holidays. You continued:

    “Israel’s Law of Return stipulates that a Jew is someone with a Jewish mother OR someone who has converted to Judaism – this would include egalitarian, or liberal, or contemporary, or conservative, or orthodox, or reform, or modern orthodox, or however a Jew finds their path.”

    Actually according to Wikipedia, the law of return is even more liberal.
    “Law of Return (Hebrew: ???? ??????????, ?ok ha-shv?t) is an Israeli law, passed on 5 July 1950, which gives Jews the right to come and live in Israel and to gain Israeli citizenship.[1] In 1970, the right of entry and settlement was extended to people with one Jewish grandparent and a person who is married to a Jew, whether or not he or she is considered Jewish under Orthodox interpretations of Halakha.[2]” You continued:

    ” For our tribes continued success we need to be accepting of our fellow people and not try and play the ‘everybody to the right of my position is crazy and everybody to the left of my position is not really Jewish.’ We will be stronger, safer, and better together.”

    I agree. If you choose to respond, perhaps we should take our conversation off line. My email is eashtov@aol.com

    Thanks again for engaging.
    Biv’racha,
    Jordan Goodman
    Wheeling, IL

  8. Jordan says

    November 8, 2017 at 12:50 am

    Shalom Clint,

    My agreement at the end of my last post should have been tempered by the fact that there remains a NANO void re a definition of the adjective “Jewish.” Thus any use of the word Jewish by folks othe than the Orthodox, remains ambiguous to meaningless.

    Biv’racha,
    Jordan

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